Abby Lehman — The Missing Peace
Strategic Advisor  ·  Master Connector  ·  Fourth-Generation New Yorker

The missing piece isn’t more capital. It’s alignment.

Abby Lehman bridges capital, creativity, and community to unlock transformational impact — helping leaders, families, and organizations find the missing peace in their work, their legacy, and themselves.

Portrait of Abby Lehman
Abby Lehman — New York, NY

Abby Lehman is a fourth-generation New Yorker, strategic advisor, and master connector whose career bridges capital, creativity, and community to unlock transformational impact. With more than 15 years across philanthropy, social enterprise, cultural institutions, and public–private partnerships, she helps leaders, families, and organizations find the missing peace in their work, their legacy, and themselves.

Whether she is guiding philanthropists to resource equitable initiatives, convening coalitions to revitalize neighborhoods, or amplifying the narratives of peacebuilders and artists, Abby’s work is about connecting diverse forms of capital so they can multiply their impact.

Her Philosophy
“Capital is not just money — it’s imagination, trust, culture, relationships, and story.”

Abby believes transformational change happens when we bring all forms of capital to the table and align them with values. Her work is about connecting those forms of capital — financial, cultural, relational — so they can multiply their impact, not sit in silos.

Who She Works With

Big-hearted, high-achieving agents of change.

Her clients have built lives full of accolades, financial milestones, and accomplishments — yet still feel a quiet lack: the missing piece of peace, belonging, or alignment. Abby meets them here.

With her rare mix of soulful depth and pragmatic strategy, she helps connect the dots between vision, values, and action.

PHILANTHROPISTS FAMILIES & LEGACY PLANNING CULTURAL INSTITUTIONS FOUNDERS & BOARDS
How She Works

Three strands, woven together.

Align

Aligns capital with values, ensuring that financial, cultural, and relational resources flow where they create lasting good.

Build

Builds trust-based coalitions that cross sectors and silos, from neighborhood revitalization to global policy.

Amplify

Amplifies narratives as tools for healing, influence, and systemic change.

Where the Work Has Landed

Across sectors, borders, and boardrooms.

United Nations · Policy

Supported climate elders shaping United Nations policy.

Nairobi, Kenya · Peacebuilding

Advised youth peacebuilders working to build coalitions for lasting peace.

Nationwide · Institutions

Co-founded nonprofits and advised cultural institutions on strategy and growth.

A peaceful warrior and compassionate catalyst, Abby balances energized depth with clarity of purpose — creating spaces where people feel they matter, they belong, and peace is possible.

Grace in Action
“With, For, and From Love”
Related Initiatives

Legacy work close to her heart.

The M.E.L. Memorial Fund

A dedicated fund carrying forward a legacy of memory and meaning — supporting the causes it was built to serve.

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NYPD & First Responders

A dedicated space honoring the service of New York’s first responders and the communities they protect.

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Ready to align your capital with your values?

Whether it’s legacy planning, board strategy, or reclaiming your story — Abby creates the space for it.